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3 Signs of Infidelity: How to Tell if Your Spouse is Cheating

by | Jan 7, 2016 | cheating spouse, Investigative

Do you believe your spouse is cheating? It can be a confusing time for you if you suspect your spouse of cheating, but the important thing to remember is to keep calm and level headed.  Obviously, your significant other is probably not going to be honest if you question them about your suspicions, so you may have to do some detective work for yourself. We handle a large number of infidelity and adultery investigations, so we know what the top warning signs are.

  • Change in Behavior at Home

If you notice your wife or husband acting strangely or different than he or she normally does around the house this may be something to look into.  Their normal dress, hygiene, schedule, and even diet may change if they are trying to impress someone besides you.  This doesn’t mean that if your husband or wife starts using new toothpaste they are cheating, it’s usually more drastic changes that are of concern.

  • Distance in Your Relationship

Distancing themselves from your relationship may be the most common sign that your spouse is cheating.  Spending less time with you,  sharing less information, constant arguing and disagreeing may all be signs you have an unfaithful spouse.  If your significant other has met someone else, they may feel like they are losing some of the feelings they have for you, and you might be able to tell, even if they aren’t  saying it.  Which leads us to our next sign :

  • They Might Tell You About Their New “Friend”

It is not uncommon for a cheating husband or wife to tell their spouse about their affair, usually unintentionally.  Since families generally share how their day was with each other, a cheating spouse may tell their partner about a new “friend” they met, or have been hanging out with.  They think since their husband or wife already knows that they are spending time with this new person, that they can’t possibly be accused of having an affair because they told you about it!  They may use statements like “We’re just friends”, even if they haven’t been asked about their relationship with this new “friend”, and it usually means there’s more there than just a simple friendship.

If you suspect your husband, wife, fiance, girlfriend, or boyfriend of cheating, and you aren’t sure, you may want to pay closer attention to their habits and how they interact with you.  Your safety is paramount, so if you need some assistance, we offer cheating spouse investigation services.  Call us today for a consultation.


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